关于牛牛的“谎言”以及“暧昧”

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幸运的可儿 你说的那些皆有可能
“当一个男人心中有了所爱,  却因为有其他更重要的事没做成, 他会将爱搁浅,  是不是就代表他不爱呢?”
——这条我认为呢 如果一个男人自信心不是很强 或者他那时候真的时候很困难得话 或许会放弃 有时候放弃也是一种爱
“放弃牛,  到底什么样的理由最合适?  除了说谎,  暧昧不明! 放弃爱人, 原因到底是该在他,  还是在自己?”
——如果你已经不爱他了 那还是原因在你比较好 如果他很爱你 他不会放弃 会愿意为你改变
“是不是对你诚实, 明确的人就是喜欢你?  这么判断合理吗?”
——这个不好说呢 我这个为人也很诚实 很明确 难道我见一个喜欢一个吗？
“其实是这样,  我有个表弟金牛座,  大学毕业快两年了, 真的很好很乖,  可就是找不到交往的女孩! 真不知是哪的问题? ”
——应该没什么问题 属于他的缘分还没到吧 呵呵

gaogao

前天看《心灵花园》谈男人的谎言
其中有一个男嘉宾说，一个男人爱一个女人的时候，也会说谎，因为女人有时太过敏感了，
一些善意的谎言，能避免女人误解

xiuxi

我是因为看到很多对恋人很好, 很殷勤的人,  最后还是逃不掉被怀疑和放弃.
不殷勤,  不主动的人,  更不用说似乎毫无疑问就该得不到爱情. 或者不配得到爱情. 好象怎么样都会失去!  那谁还会有信心?  有些不知所措!  
为什么关乎爱情的事,  就使我们这么一反常态?  如果说它不同寻常,  那是不是也是要我们得到爱后,  就更应该懂生活,  懂人,  懂异性, 比以往更正常才对呢?  否则那不就是等着失去爱吗?  所以要想不失去爱,  是不是要把视野放回到自己身上, 而不是放在爱人身上; 把自己的视野放在生活上, 而不是紧盯着爱情,  两个人从此心神不宁, 不得安生!
我想了想我们恋爱时做的所有事,  其实大多和我们单身时做的没什么本质的区别. 为什么就因为是恋爱,  我们的就要求生活和爱人要跟我们走了呢? 说白了, 任何时候不还是得顺着"大势所趋"的生活之流中把握自己吗?
小心翼翼,  倾情付出了很多,  却失去了,  太可惜了!  我太惋惜了,  因为表弟大学时交往的女孩, 一毕业就决然的和他分了! 我们所有人都一头雾水!  真是承受不了那个女孩的做事方式.  现在的局面真不知道什么时候能改变! 我也常劝他说,  也许大点, 成熟点爱你的人才更看重把握和珍惜和你在一起的生活!  而不只是贪恋爱.  真是无奈!
爱情有限,  生活不息!

唐翔

可儿
你表弟的情况 几乎在很多大学生身上发生
可能是因为害怕爱情碰到现实 想在最灿烂时结束
或者就是因为那些物质的要求
这个社会就是如此现实
我不知我是否对男人有偏见 但是我总觉得太善良的女人未必能得到很好爱情
男人总在觉得你已经完全属于的时候开始偏离了
不知从什么时候开始 我已经不相信永远
只要过好现在就成 呵呵

大哥大

这样下去，牛真地就没得混了！牛最怕被别人看透

3fff

哦HOHOHO  姐妹们一起来擒牛
牛肉是很好吃哒 哈哈

haoma1

鱼MM,
你真的成为擒牛专家了,可以开专家门诊了.
你也很有耐心哟!
唉,我现在没有耐心,说话都犯冲.

lijingjing

金牛的男人做情人好，做老公太闷了．一点情趣都没有．晕！！

nishishui

          先说…………偶是牛牛
          本身，牛牛是讨厌说谎的，但是，被逼得厉害还是会说……但爱除外
          暧昧？？？牛牛很难拒绝别人，所以在别人眼里感觉这是暧昧的
      牛牛很容易喜欢上一个人，但很难爱上一个人……所以，如果牛牛真的爱你，
      就不会让你觉得不安……

gaogao

i met a taurus through internet dating company(not chat room) one month ago.
it was he who first suggested meeting after reading my profile.we met somewhere for coffee and he was very satisfied with me .
he arranged 4 times to see me within 2 weeks even though he was very busy(he runs a cancer reserch centre in London.he is a scientist)).he kissed me when we met for the second time in his car. he said he really liked me.he guided my hand to touch him i could feel he was trambling with excitement(it reminded me that taraus is a very sensuous star sign!).
the last time we met was for dinner.we had very good conversation he admired me very much i could tell from his eyes.again we had very passionate kiss in the car after dinner.he called me baby and guided my hand to touch his body even his man's...as he undid his belt(sorry to mention that)
i haven't seen him since then,as he suddently becomes very quiet.he never texts me unless i text him(i only texted him twice to say hello).noemally he texts me back the day after with very simple words.I have been thinking what i have done wrong(i don't think he is a loose man.I have noticed he removed his photo and never logged onto that dating site since we met)i can't think anything i've done wrong.If i had how he could have kissed me in the car in that way?
one week ago i texted him a very long message(this is the only way we can contact each other)i told me how i feel about him and my feelings towards him and i emphasised i am not asking for anything from him and not pushing him in anyway.i just think we should have a try if we don't try how can we know the result?and also i told him please forgive me if i did something wrong which might have happened unconsciously.
the next day he texted me back and apologised for not getting back to me sooner,as he has been really busy.he DID say we should meet and chat .he would find a time to see me in the week.
i was very happy to receive his message and replied saying i was looking forward to seeing him.
after that nothing has happened,no text,no explanation,no news from him whatsever.it has been another week.but i have said everything to him.i don't think it's a good idea to contact him again on my part.
could you tell me what's going on betwween me and him?i know he is very busy but how can you explain he even spent one hour to see me for lunch the second time we met and he rushed to his office after that.
do you think he is going to leave me?but why?
i have fellen love with him-i am aquarius.
thanks  every body in this foeum in advance.i have learnt a lot from here about taurus.i just want to know whether i still have the chance to be with him?
i am sorry i can't type Chinese as i am in London.